ENTJ---Love

So...yet another personality test. This one is Psychological....I'm an ENTJ aparently and this is what it had to say about my lovelife.
For those of you that know me, I am a little curious as to what you think....is this dead on or a total miss? It's hard for me to see things like this as I am not yet 100% sure of who I am actually. Many times, I think that these things are wrong until I talk to my mother or Pheobe and then I come to the realitization that I am the one that is wrong....Mom and Pheobe tend to know me better than I know me. That, or they put it into a different perspective.....

For the ENTJ, love needs to fit into the overall picture and may become subservient to their larger goals. Love is always within the context of what the relationship is. Love means a match between the ENTJ's needs and what the partner provides. The loved one is, in a sense, an extension of the ENTJ's vision, preferably acting in a supportive, not competing-role. ENTJs tend to make rigorous demands of love. While they may fall in love easily, they maintain that love only if the other person is willing to accept the ENTJ's directness and need for independence.

Because attractiveness is a part of our culture and an initial standard for many relationships, and because ENTJs like to do better than the standard, they particularly take note of attractive people. Given their competitive nature, ENTJs often wonder if they can "win the heart" of the attractive other. It becomes almost a game for them. However, they may not always take action on their observations. They prefer partners who complete their own image of success and attractiveness. The accomplishments or attractiveness of the partner should not overshadow or interfere with those of the ENTJ.

The partner of an ENTJ can expect a hard-working and industrious provider who may use the fruits of his or her labor as an expression of love. ENTJs may not be as verbally communicative of their loving feelings as other types.

ENTJs expect to have their needs met in relationships, while maintaining their independence. When the partner can no longer do that, it is logical for the ENTJ to sever ties and to move on. However, when ENTJs are scorned by others, they may feel a passionate devastation, and a strong sense of loss, that is seldom shared with others. However, this sense of loss and gloom generally lasts only a short period before they are ready to move on.


So...what do you think? Is this why I am single and unable to find an ideal mate? LMFAO

THE MASTER DIGITAL CLEANSE!!!!

Following in the footsteps of John Mayer, I have decided to take The Master Digital Cleanse Challenge.

Guidelines:

*email only from laptop or desktop computers
*cell phones can only be used to make calls, and no text messages or e-mails are allowed - if you receive a text, you must reply in voice over the phone. E-mails must be returned from a laptop or desktop computer.
*no use of Twitter or any other social networking site - this includes reading as well as posting.
*no visiting of any entertainment or gossip sites.

This should prove to be quite interesting. I'm not going to start this until Monday as I have the weekend full of midnight Audit shifts at the hotel. I would go insane being stuck there all night in the silence without something to do. Well, isn't that the point though? Maybe I should start it tonight and then just take a book to work with me. I'll test the waters this evening and see how it goes. If I am successful, I will go ahead and start it tonight. If not, looks like Monday it is!
I didn't read whether or not blogging is included. I hope not. I guess that must be up to the one taking the Cleanse, right? If one were truly serious about it, I guess blogging would be out as well. Okay, so that's it. No more blogging either. Just for a week though, right? I can survive a week.....can't I??? Well, we'll just have to see!!

Thanks for stopping by and don't forget to be a dear and feed the fish on your way out! Please stop by often throughout the next week and feed them as I will not be here! OH NO!!

*~*Leila*~*